A woman has come out to accuse Pamela Anderson of being a “home wrecker”, after the former playboy model revealed this week she had gotten married to her body guard, Dan Hayhurst.
According to the woman, Anderson seduced Hayhurst (pictured above) who she married on Christmas Eve while he worked on her property in the Canadian town of Ladysmith.
She also accused the former model and actress of breaking up “a happy family of five”
On Wednesday, January 27, 2021, the 53-year-old former Baywatch star announced she had married her “bodyguard” Dan, 40, in what was her sixth wedding, to her fifth husband, saying: “I’m exactly where I need to be, in the arms of a man who loves me.”
But Dan’s ex, Carey, (pictured below) who had been living with him and bringing up his two children for the past five years, has revealed how she was blindsided by the affair and knew nothing of their marriage until she read about it online.
She said the pair started getting close early last year while she and Dan were still together before he finally moved out of their home into Anderson’s home in July.
Mum-of-one Carey, from Vancouver Island, and Dan, then a single dad, got together around five years ago and she moved in with him on the mainland in Squamish, a town north of Vancouver, helping to bring up his two young children.
Carey, 42, said: “This is not the lockdown love story which is being portrayed, it’s all a facade.
“I decided to speak out because I want people to know that my almost five-year relationship, with three children involved, ended because of the affair Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
“It’s sad that people celebrate this and cheer them on, when it started with deceit, denials and life-shattering choices for all the people involved.
“It wasn’t this romance that happened overnight. He worked with her for over six months before any of that happened.
“He wasn’t her body-guard then, he is a handyman, she hired him to work on her house.
“We were all totally blindsided by this, it’s been so hard for us. And it’s not just me and the kids, lots of people have been hurt by them. Dan has lost friendships and business relationships because of this.”
She said: “We did everything together, like family vacations, family fishing trips, we worked on family projects together. It was always us.”
But their happy life was to change for ever after Dan was taken on as a building contractor to renovate Pamela’s home, set in five acres in Ladysmith.
He started work there in early autumn 2019 and she says her ex husband started complaining to Carey about how “crazy” Pamela was and how difficult and demanding she was to work for.
Carey said things started to change at the end of last March, with Dan spending more and more time out of the house.
She said: “The worm turned. Covid happened and it just seemed to happen overnight.
“Dan would stay at her house and not come home, and here I am taking care of the kids.
“At first he denied it when I confronted him but then, finally, I asked him, ‘Are you sleeping with Pam? He said, ‘All I’m going to say is I’ve crossed the line’.
“At first he said, ‘I want you to stay in our house. I don’t want you to go. I just need to figure things out’.
“Later he apologised to me. He said, ‘Carey, I love you. I don’t know what is going on right now. I’m not in my right head right now. I’m not in a good space’.
“He asked me to give him time to figure things out so I just let him do what he was doing.
“And there was no turning back by then. I had met Pam and had gone to dinner with her. My daughter used to work for her. I couldn’t believe it.”
Dan and Pamela’s relationship continued to develop and last July he moved out of the home he shared with Carey and moved in with Pam.
Pamela claims she and Dan had the blessing of all their family and friends for their wedding, but Carey says it’s a lie, saying: “No one was invited to the wedding.
“It doesn’t even seem like a real wedding. Everything looks so controlled.”
She added: “He can be very manipulative so in a sense they are made for each other, but I don’t see this lasting. I’d be very surprised.
“Dan and I never got married because I don’t ever want to.
“To me it’s nothing, it’s a piece of paper and it causes problems when you want to get out of it.
“And he had told me, ‘I’ll never get married again’. And then here we are, six or eight months or whatever the hell they are into their relationship and they’re married.
“I just think, ‘Wow, who are you? Who is the man I was with for five years?’ None of this makes sense.”
Carey’s daughter Denise, 21, who worked as a labourer at Pam’s home, told The Sun that when she discovered Dan’s relationship she thought to herself: “I was shocked when I learned about it.
“I just thought, ‘How can this even be a thing?’ I’m here working with them full-time and I had no idea.
“And the fact that he had a family, we were a blended family, he has two young kids and obviously she’s quite a lot older.
“What was his thought process? What was going on in his mind?
“I was so shocked. It’s something so unreal, like something straight out of the movies. I can’t believe it. Everyone thinks it’s this lockdown love story and nobody knows that there was an affair and there’s this family involved.
“And I think the hardest part is that people are being fed this one-sided fairytale story when in reality there’s so much more to it.
“It’s damaged a lot of people’s lives. It’s been really difficult for my mum.
“She totally stepped up and was a full-time mum to those kids. It’s been hard to watch her go through that.
“There was no rough patch or things being bad at home, things were completely normal throughout the entire thing until this happened.
“Pam doesn’t have the best marriage track record, that’s for sure. So when Covid is over and she can go back to travelling and whatnot, I really don’t see it working.”
Anderson married Tommy in 1995 after knowing him for just 96 hours and had two kids with him, Brandon and Dylan.
The couple split after the musician assaulted her and spent six months in jail. They divorced in 1998 but briefly reunited in 2008 before finally calling it quits again.
Her second marriage to Kid Rock only lasted one year. Husband No3 Rick Saloman married Pam in 2007.Her most recent husband is Jon Peters – the couple slit after just 12 days of marriage with Anderson saying they were never legally married.
